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One of the most wonderful people I've ever known passed away last night. His name was Isak. Read his obituary, and you'll see that this was a man who was extraordinary in every sense of the word. A survivor, a man of conviction, a gentle and caring soul, a loving family man, a kind and dear friend. He was funny, charming, slightly irreverent and always generous. Next week, he and his lovely wife Ann would have celebrated their 70th wedding anniversary. (I took this picture of him at the celebration of their 65th.) They don't make 'em like this any more. Rest in peace, sweet Isak. The world was lucky to have you in it, and I am blessed to have known you.
Isak Federman came to Kansas City in 1946, the only member
of his family to have survived the Holocaust. He was a successful businessman,
a loving parent, and a generous supporter of the Kansas City Jewish community.
He was a character, a dramatic and humorous storyteller who could take over a
room and make friends instantly. He died on September 9, 2016, at the age of
94.
Isak was born on March 14, 1922, in Wolbrom, Poland, the
third child of Boruch and Ruchla Biala Federman. His father died before Isak was
a year old, and his mother eventually remarried Herschel Kalisz with whom she
had a fourth child. Encouraged by his mother and stepfather, he left home at
the age of thirteen to study at a Yeshiva (a school for Jewish boys), but
returned home in the summer of 1939 amid rumors of a German invasion. After his
village was occupied he was picked up on the street by the German SS in the
fall of 1939, and ordered to help build a forced labor camp nearby. Eventually,
he was forced to do slave labor in eighteen camps, including Rzeszow, Plaszow,
Flossenberg, and Sachsenhausen. He built roads and barracks, worked in salt
mines, and “pretended” to operate a lathe machine. He was also forced to clean
up rubble from the German invasion of Russia, and later, he and other prisoners
were marched into Berlin during bombing raids, and forced to clear rubble there
as well. In 1944, he was shot in the head and wrist while escaping from the
concentration camp at Bergen Belsen, near Hamburg, and survived in the forest
for several days before being captured. He was liberated by the British Army on
May 3, 1945, weighing about 80 pounds, and sick with typhus.
After Isak had spent about six weeks in an army field
hospital, he went back to Bergen Belsen, where a displaced persons camp had
been established, in hopes of finding information about his family. He found no
surviving family members, but he met Anna (Chana) Warshawski, who remained
lovingly devoted to him for the rest of his life, as he was to her.
In December 1945, he heard a radio translation of a speech
in which President Truman announced that 100,000 displaced persons would be
allowed to immigrate to the United States. He encouraged Anna and her surviving
family members to apply. In June 1946, they traveled to New York under the
sponsorship of the American Jewish Joint Distribution Committee. When they
arrived, the Joint representative suggested they move to Kansas City. In
Yiddish, Isak asked him if Kansas City was in America; upon being told that it
was, he said that they would go. That September, he and Anna, now Ann, were
married, the first survivors to do so in the Kansas City area. Five hundred
“strangers” attended their wedding, and they were embraced by the Jewish
community in Kansas City. They were immediately invited to join Kerem Israel
Synagogue, now Kehilath Israel. Over the years, Isak and Ann made a number of
lifelong friends with whom they shared a commitment to Kehilath Israel. Isak
served the synagogue in a number of ways, including as its President. He was
actively involved in B’nai Brith and Jewish Federation of Kansas City, and was
both a Mason and a Shriner. While he referred to himself as a “newcomer”
(“green-ah” in Yiddish) he was bold and self-confident, a salesman who was hard
to resist, genuinely liked by his customers, and a hard worker.
In 1948, while still learning the English language, he
co-founded Superior Upholstered Furniture Company. He sold that company in 1976
and after being retired “for a weekend” became restless and started K.C.
Textile Company, which he eventually sold in 1996. While he would point out
that his secular education stopped after seven grades, he was an astute
businessman, a dealmaker whose handshake was his bond. Indeed, he was a
founding director of Lenexa National Bank, and was the Board Chair who led the
negotiation of its sale to Commerce Bank.
In 1993, along with his good friend
Jack Mandelbaum, he co-founded the Midwest Center for Holocaust Education,
which teaches the history of the Holocaust as a means to counter indifference,
intolerance and genocide.
Isak had always been reluctant to discuss his wartime
experiences; despite that, he decided to share those experiences to help raise
funds for MCHE. None of his friends were spared his pitch, as he and Jack
worked to help build and finance an organization that continues to serve the
entire community. He loved reading about and discussing current events and
history, attending sporting events, and traveling with Ann. He was a patriot,
proud to be a citizen of the United States and grateful to Kansas City for
welcoming him when he had no home to return to.
In addition to his beloved wife Ann, he is survived by
three children, Rachel Altman (Avrom), Arthur Federman (Diane), and Lorie
Federman, by five grandchildren (Rebekah Altman, Audrey Federman, Carla
Federman, Elijah Knight, and Maya Knight), and by seven great grandchildren.
The family thanks the staff of Suites 2 and 3 at Village Shalom and that of
Kansas City Hospice for their devoted care of Isak during the last years of his
life. Special thanks to Sonia Warshawski for her love and support of Ann.
