mama melissa!

Change the Truth is incredibly lucky to have Melissa in its corner. This August will mark her fifth year living and working on our behalf at St. Mary Kevin Children's Home. The following recent missive makes it quite clear that she is a mama to so many now - and a fantastic one at that!

"Mourie lost her first tooth last weekend. As a child, my mom did an exceptional job of making those childhood milestones special. I celebrated Antwain’s milestones with him, and it has become one of my great joys to be present for the childhood milestones of the children at SMK.

In America, the Tooth Fairy is a common myth parents use to trade their child’s tooth for some small money. My mom kept the Tooth Fairy legacy alive when I was a child, and I did the same with Antwain. When Mourie discovered her tooth missing, she shared that Uganda’s Tooth Fairy is actually a Rat, which is crafty enough to eat the tooth after leaving a Ugandan shilling coin in its place.

When Mourie lost her tooth, we did not give the Tooth Rat the opportunity to pay us a visit. Instead I traded her tooth for a Ugandan shilling coin, and we are saving her first lost tooth for her Mommy. For me, it was a special privilege to be there during this moment in her childhood."

kudos to nelson: blog post by melissa

Joan Faith, Nelson, Melissa

Yesterday I had the privilege of attending the 65th Annual Makerere University Graduation of one of Change The Truth’s sponsored students. Wasswa Nelson joined 13,770 other students in graduating this year from Uganda’s oldest and largest public University. Truly a remarkable achievement here in Uganda!! Nelson graduated with his Bachelor Degree in Computer Sciences, and trust me, the future of this young man is very bright.

Due to the masses of graduates, Nelson only received an invitation for 2 people to attend his graduation ceremony, so Joan Faith and I were incredibly honored to be those invited. There were so many graduates that each student received only a brief individual moment of acknowledgement when their name was read amongst the other graduates in their particular program. But when that moment came, the emotions of pride in Nelson and his accomplishment was completely overwhelming!

Nelson is one of the most ambitious young people I have ever known, but here in Uganda that ambition accompanies LOTS of hard work. Nelson is not afraid of hard-work, long hours, diligence, and maximizing every opportunity. I look forward to seeing where life will take Nelson next… it will be excellent!!

Congratulations to Nelson!!

- Melissa

and this is why i do THIS!

Below is a letter I recently received from Melissa, CTT Liaison at St. Mary Kevin Children's Home. I think you'll agree it validates just how much of an impact CTT is having on the children in Uganda, Sheillah in particular! The letter thanks Judy, her sponsor and Team 7 member Jane, who spent a great deal of time counseling Sheillah last December (and has continued to do so through written correspondence). We've all heard the phrase "it takes a village." Here's what those words can actually mean…

"I had the opportunity to visit Sheillah this past Sunday at her hostel in Mengo, and I felt compelled to write to each of you.  It has been a pleasure to watch Sheillah’s confidence blossom over these past few years.  And she really has each of you to directly thank for that!  Last year, I was really concerned about Sheillah’s emotional stability and all the school pressures. But I simply marveled at the confident, peaceful young lady that sat before me over the weekend.  Each and every word of encouragement, support and love from you has been internalized by Sheillah, as she has cherished and held them very close to her heart. 

During our visit, Sheillah reflected on her studies in such a wise, mature manner.  She has always identified herself as an academic and was always at the top of her class.  While attending Mengo Senior School was indeed a dream realized for Sheillah, she also stepped into a school environment of over 4,000 of the brightest students in Uganda.  The standards at Mengo are high. This school has taught Sheillah some valuable life lessons.  She has always been a solitary person, but she has recognized she had to reach out and relate with others, ask for assistance, and become part of a larger community of peers.  She was very proud to speak of her ‘friends,’ which has never before been a topic of discussion with Sheillah.  These friendships are based on mutual respect, a common love of science and genuine support toward success in the future. 

For Judy… First of all, Sheillah LOVED the camera you sent her for her birthday.  She squealed with joy and clasped her hands together with sheer excitement.  Sheillah spoke very eloquently about the impact your unconditional support has had on her.  She said that you are her inspiration and her motivation - that driving presence which provides her confidence.  When she has felt defeated, she pulls out one of your letters or feels encouraged by your words.  They give her strength to try again and not give up.  She wants to make you proud, because you have shown her the love of family that she has missed having.

For Jane… Your time with Sheillah at SMK profoundly impacted Sheillah’s outlook on how she was managing her life and emotions.  She said that you opened her eyes to several facts, one being not a single person on this earth can be perfect.  Sheillah said she was exhausting herself trying to attain the impossible.  You provided the wisdom that she just needs to do her very best and then have the patience to wait for results.  There was such a peace about her as she anticipates taking each examination one at a time, do her level best, and then feel contented with herself as she moves on to the next chapter of her life.  Thank you again for that time with Sheillah…she will never forget your words!! 

For Gloria… I wish I could have recorded Sheillah’s heartfelt words about the impact CTT has had on her life.  Without the opportunity for sponsorship and your direct links with Judy and Jane, Sheillah humbly recognizes that her life would be so drastically different.  She appreciated CTT supporting her choice to attend Mengo SS which was a dream come true for her.  While it was not easy, she is truly grateful She also spoke about the burdens that CTT lifted from her mind.  She was very proud that she was never once worried or was ashamed by being sent away for not having school fees.  She never had to attend a class without books or the proper supplies.  She never had to borrow basic hygiene supplies from her friends.  While it seems like a small thing, Sheillah corrected that it is, in fact, incredibly significant.  She named several CTT friends who have really stepped in during her family’s absence, and she got emotional being thankful for not having to be alone any longer.  Just another testimony to CTT’s profound work and your impacting leadership!!

Sheillah will be taking her Senior 6 examinations from November 10th-28th.  Please keep her in your very best thoughts… her results will then be released in March 2015.  Thanks again for all that you have done for Sheillah!!" - Melissa

Thank you, Mel, for sending this along. Thank you, Judy, for supporting and encouraging Sheillah throughout her high school experience, and thank you Jane, for helping her sort out her feelings about the stress in her life. 

If any of you blog readers would like to become a sponsor to one of our delightful young primary students - a graduating 7th grader who is eager to continue his/her education at the high school level, please contact me. I think you'll find it to be a very rewarding experience.

guest post by melissa: the equator

"Uganda is one of only 11 countries through which the Equator passes.  Its presence is a highlight for tourism.  Its importance is taught to students by the middle of Primary School. The Equator is only 1½ hours away from SMK, but until this year the number of children who had actually visited this special spot could be counted on one hand. 

I remember my first trip to the Equator with CTT Team 1 in 2007.  It was quite a memorable side trip for Ann, Lonnie, Jane, Peter, and me.  The landmark itself is very simple and could easily be driven past without much attention paid.  But there is a palpable sense of significance felt as one stands on this invisible line that divides our world.  (And it is absolutely true that water does flow in different directions within the northern and southern hemisphere and has absolutely no flow directly on the Equator line.)

This year there has been the special opportunity for 13 Secondary students to travel with CTT visitors to the Equator.  These trips were made during 3 different occasions.  The first trip was in August with Gloria, Lynne, and Natalie.  Next was a trip in November with Melissa when the SMK artists delivered their paintings to the AID Child Art Gallery.  And the final trip happened earlier this month with Dawn and Emily.  Each mini-trip provided CTT visitors with the chance to spend quality time with students.  There were fun car games played, songs sung, some naps, and road-snacks enjoyed by all. 

At the Equator, there is the same indicator on both sides of the road, where millions of photos have been taken.  For our groups, there were lots of group and individual shots.  It is always fun to see how a person’s personality emerges during this photo opportunity.  People can get very creative making their memories while standing atop the Equator!

Here are some of the fun photos taken of the students and their CTT friends."

 Gloria, Lynne, Natalie, Melissa, Rebecca, Fiona, and Nahia

Willy, Nicky, Brian, Wycliffe, and Antwain 

Katongole

Rose K, Emily, Rechael, Irene, Scovia, and Dawn

change the truth team 7: guest post by melissa

It's almost time! Team 7 will be at St. Mary Kevin Orphanage two weeks from now, and everyone involved is getting very excited. Soon, I'll feature bios and pictures of the team members. For now, though, enjoy this post by Melissa about the excitement that's building at the orphanage.

Melissa and Antwain, 2013

The Team is Coming! The Team is Coming!

"In two short weeks from now, Change The Truth’s Team 7 will be arriving at St. Mary Kevin Orphanage Motherhood. Over the years, this annual visit is one of anticipation and excitement for the orphans, staff, and Administration alike. It becomes the pinnacle event of the long holiday break and joyous occasion to welcome back old friends, as well as make new friends!

This year, Team 7 will be mainly a family affair. The team leaders, Jeff and Jennifer, are a dynamic husband-wife duo. This trip will make their 3rd visit to SMK. Previous, they were a part of Team 4, as well as an independent visit. Then, there is an entire family. Josh and his daughter, Leah, were members of Team 6. Their time at SMK was so meaningful that the whole family wants to return together. Joining this year will be Josh’s wife, Jane, and twin sons, Max and Sam. Also, Dawn was a member of Team 5. She is returning this year with her youngest daughter, Emily. Finally, Cynthia, a photographer and CTT supporter, will be rounding out this year’s team.

Personally, one of the most meaningful visits to SMK was Team 3. It was that year Antwain was also a member of the CTT team. Being able to introduce two important components of my life to one another was really an incredible experience. I was profoundly proud to watch Antwain experience SMK for the first time. While I shared countless stories and photos, nothing could compare to the reality of Antwain hanging out with special friends like Henry or Saka. I will enjoy witnessing a similar experience for Josh and Dawn.

Each team member will arrive with their bags packed to capacity with arts and craft materials, medical supplies, Christmas gifts, pen pal letters, digital cameras, few computers and software, and lots of other goodies. The days will be jammed packed with individual projects (like photography classes, computer classes, counseling sessions, arts/craft time, book clubs, recreation activities), group projects (installing new mattresses in dormitories, hosting Spirit Day), holiday celebration on Christmas, showcase of entertainment, a few fieldtrips, and endless hugs/walks/talks/holding hands.

The calendar to countdown the days until CTT Team 7’s arrival will go up this week, as there is a daily onslaught of inquiries about their arrivals. The decorations will be prepared to welcome our friends both returning and new as they once again share a memorable holiday season at SMKOM."

guest post by melissa: update on violin lessons

A few months ago, SMKOM had the pleasure of hosting the Strings for Uganda team (Nick, Lindsey, Hannah, and Amaya).  Their time is still fondly remembered by the students, as they forged some really special friendships.  During their 2 week visit, 20 students from Primary 3 and Primary 4 had the unique opportunity for violin training. These students would eagerly await their lesson time during the school day and literally run to the music room for their daily training. It was the highlight of their day!  Afterwards, they were reluctant to leave, and many sought out additional violin practice after school.

While the Strings for Uganda team sparked an interest in the violin for their students, they knew that cultivating a musical talent is not a short-term process.  It takes months for their students to learn the proper skill sets to proficiently play the violin, as well as establishing a deeper appreciation for their instrument.  They needed someone here in Uganda to continue their work.  

   

During their planning process, the Strings for Uganda team managed to link with the only musical institution offering private musical training within Uganda.  The Kampala Music School has a long and well-respected history, providing musical training from classical, orchestra, or vocal training to musicians of all levels of skill set.  Beginning with email correspondence and then a personal visit, the Strings for Uganda successfully formed a partnership with the Kampala Music School offering violin rentals and continued instruction for SMKOM’s violin students.

Last month, violin lessons began on a weekly basis right here at SMKOM.  A music teacher with the Kampala Music School travels to SMKOM during the school day to offer 30 minute lessons for the 20 violin students. Students leave their classroom during their group lesson time and then return afterwards with minimal disruption to their studies.  The violin students have picked up right where they left off.  They have not missed a beat or forgotten their initial training by the Strings for Uganda team.  With each new lesson, their skill set is growing.  They are playing with confidence.  They are practicing during the week.  They are proud to be a member of this class. 

Thanks to the Strings for Uganda team… Nick, Lindsey, Hannah, and Amaya.  Your love for the violin has been transferred to each of your students.  They are proud to be YOUR students, and your initial influences will never be forgotten.  And additional thanks to the Kampala Music School, director Kiggunda Fred, and teacher Phoebe.  The torch has been passed to your capable hands to train our violin students.  The passion your school has demonstrated for teaching Ugandans about the beauty of music has been inspiring.  Thanks for believing in SMKOM’s violin students!

- Melissa

ctt welcomes melissa and antwain back for a brief visit

This weekend past CTT team members were treated to an evening with Melissa and Antwain, who are visiting friends and family in the US for a couple weeks. It's hard to believe, but it's been nearly three years since they moved to Uganda!

Antwain will soon be 14. He's grown tall, thin and handsome and has a thick Ugandan accent. He is a boarding student at secondary school. He seems very happy and is maturing into such a nice young man. Melissa has found her home in Uganda and is so content.

CTT is incredibly lucky to have Melissa on the ground at St. Mary Kevin Orphanage. But we were very happy to have her on KC soil Saturday night!

CTT board (Carol, Lynne, Eddie, Gloria and Avis) and Melissa

Antwain and Natalie (Team 6)

Lonnie (center, Team 1) with wife Brenda and granddaughter Jaden

Emily (Team 4)

Melissa fills a group in on the state of the orphanage

Melissa and Antwain

Melissa talks with three of the four members of Strings for Uganda (Hannah, Lindsey and Nick)

Jennifer and Jeff (Team 4 and leaders of Team 7)

Avis (Teams 4 and 5) and Lynne (Teams 1, 2 and 5)

Nick (Strings for Uganda)

Lonnie (Team 1) and Jaden

tom and randy's garden

During CTT Team 6’s visit to St. Mary Kevin, everyone took a break from projects one pleasant afternoon to celebrate the dedication of ‘Tom and Randy’s Garden’, a 69’ x 144’ plot of land that is nearing its first harvest of maize and cabbage.

The launch of this new project (which was made possible by a generous anonymous donor)  has been highly anticipated and now a cause for grand celebration. Guests were escorted in a procession to the flourishing garden by the marching band, which belted out jubilant tunes.  Even some local villagers joined the group. Once assembled within the secured walls of the garden space, several orphans representing the various ages of post-Secondary, secondary and primary level (Nelson, Nicky, Tina, and Kaifa) eloquently conveyed their appreciation for the fine vegetables that will soon begin to enrich their daily diets.  In addition, the full-time gardener and Joan Faith shared their thanksgiving for this project. 

    

Food in Uganda is always a struggle.  Even though the country is blessed with a favorable climate and incredibly fertile soil, most people living in Uganda still go hungry.  They go hungry because of prices, which only continue to increase. When prices get too high, families must make the tough choice between eating lunch or supper, because they simply cannot afford both.  Also, people in Uganda go hungry due to poorly balanced diets. Often the cheapest foods here in Uganda, even if grown locally, are not necessarily those high in vitamins.  Eating the same low nutrition foods too much or too often can lead to certain health challenges.

St. Mary Kevin Orphanage is no stranger to these challenges.  SMK is committed to providing three meals a day to the children, but with a budget of $.75 per day per child, it is a struggle to serve balanced meals.  The staple food product at every school in Uganda is maize flour.  It is made into liquid porridge for breakfast and firm posho with a side of beans for lunch and supper.  While there may be a variation of a meal (or two) during the week, children eat that same menu daily.

 

With the introduction of ‘Tom and Randy’s Garden', more vegetable and fruits will be added to the children’s daily diet. With a crop of more than 100 ears of maize almost ready for harvest, orphans will enjoy ears of roasted corn with several evening meals.  With more than 60 heads of cabbage growing large and firm, their bean mixture will consistently contain bits of the vegetable for an additional boost of vitamins. 

The additional great news is that CTT Team 6 came bearing seeds from Sutherland (in Atlanta, GA) ready to be planted in the garden.  In the months to come, the children will enjoy carrots, watermelon, various types of greens, squash, cauliflower, green pepper, turnips, and much more. 

Great thanks to Change The Truth for establishing and funding ‘Tom and Randy’s Garden’.  And an even greater thanks to Randy and Tom, who began a small garden project at St. Mary Kevin during CTT Team 3’s visit in 2009. The two men had a strong desire to enhance the nutrition of the orphans.  This new garden will do just that – and will continue to benefit the children in a healthy way over and over again for many years to come."

Post written by Melissa

Photos courtesy of Suzanne

a few quick nuggets from suzanne's recent emails

Some tidbits from Suzanne regarding the past couple days at SMK:

Natalie finally got her luggage! Six days in the same pants, and she (who rarely wears pants) was actually thrilled to be reunited with her recently purchased pair of cargo pants!

The dining room has a beautiful fresh coat of paint. Tomorrow the team will put the children’s handprints on the walls, along with some uplifting messages.

Team member Leah learned how to make banana dolls and made her own with the help of SMK orphan and sponsored student Sheila.

There was apparently a wild jump rope scene at the end of the day, including some crazy moves by headmaster Moses and nurse Douglas.

Holly is busy doing medical check-ups on all of the children.

Josh has been busy teaching computer skills.

There is a project the team is calling ”toilet paper art” which has gone well. (I have no idea what it looks like. Hoping for pics soon.)

Melissa’s new nickname is “Team Queen.”

There are lots of friendship bracelets being made, and there are lots of new friendships being made, as well.

"now i have life"

The following letter was sent to me by Melissa. It was the best birthday gift she could have given me. Please take a few moments to read it (but first get out some kleenex). It will fill you in on exactly what it is that Melissa does for our sponsored students, and it will reveal to you just how grateful our students are for the support we provide. 

This really is what CTT is all about.

"Gratitude and Significant Moments

I am always grateful for those significant moments (however small) that bring me back to my core.  They center me again.  They remind me of what is truly important.  They cause all the superficial nonsense or small, unimportant items on my ‘to-do’ list to be placed in their proper perspective.  Here in Uganda, they also reassure me that I am where God has strategically positioned me to be, even if that is literally on the other side of the world from those I love.

These past couple of weeks, I have had all 30 Change The Truth students… Secondary, Vocational, and University…come to my home for their ‘School Visit’ to prepare for the upcoming term.  In efforts to be thorough and consistent, I have to admit that I am quite a task-master during this visit…sign this payment voucher, sign this receipt, hand out bank slips showing paid tuition, check off school requirements, double-check school supplies, recount any issued funds, reminder about upcoming dates/visitors/needed items, read sponsor letter, encouragement of school performance, etc.  In most cases it is my last private moment with students before they head off to school. 

Daniel

Two weeks ago, one of our University students, Daniel, came for his ‘School visit.’   He is probably the quietest of CTT’s sponsored students.  His brother lives in Kajjansi, so he spends more school holidays staying with his brother than at SMKOM.  I will frequently meet him on the road, so we will engage in a chat before heading our separate directions again.  I have really enjoyed getting to know him, and he is eager to enter his final year at the University.  (And incidentally, he will be CTT’s FIRST University graduate this upcoming summer!)

During his visit, Daniel updated me on his summer internship before I launched into the technical list of tasks that we had to accomplish.  As he finished signing the final item, I literally stopped myself mid-sentence (maybe even mid-word), as this young man sat crying at my table.   

As he gathered his composure and words again, he was overcome by the opportunity that Change The Truth was supporting him through.  You see he had a full summer back here in Kajjansi and saw his friends who were driving boda-boda motorcycles, working at the local butchery, performing odd jobs digging or building, or simply sitting around waiting for some job to fall from the sky.  He has now seen the distinct fork in his road.  He can now see his future in Marketing blossoming as he enters his final year at the University.  With his voice high in emotion, he shared, ‘I would be that one sitting at home.  Just sitting.  But now I have life thanks to Change The Truth.  My words of thanks will never be enough. But I say thank you anyways.’

As I gave a big hug, as a supporter, as a believer in his future, as a voice from CTT, and as a friend, I replied, ‘Your thanks will always be more than enough.  Just remember Change The Truth believes in you, and they will never stop.’

When Daniel left, I watched him walk through our compound wiping the final traces of his tears and inhaling deep breaths.  At that distinct and significant moment, I, too, was overcome, inspired, renewed, and grateful to be the chosen one here with CTT.  CTT is definitely changing the truth, offering a brighter future, and providing hope for 30 exceptional Ugandan orphans.  And I am still holding that particular moment close to my heart even now!”

two new ctt sponsored university students!

The following was written by CTT Liaison/Social Worker Melissa Mosher:

Two weeks ago, two new CTT sponsored University students began their studies.  Samarie and Habib were among the first students sponsored by CTT five years ago.  CTT began sponsoring them in Senior 2 and due to their hard work and great academic performance they continue to be sponsored in Post-Secondary, too.

Before I tell you about what they are doing at University, let me explain their journey to admission.  Samarie and Habib took their final Senior 6 National Examination back in November 2011. They waited more than 6 months before receiving their results in June.  Then it is a mad dash to get admission forms filled for Universities. Here in Uganda, students typically choose 3-5 courses that they would LIKE to study in ranked order during application.  Ultimately, it is the University that decides which course to GIVE students.  Their decision is final, and it is not possible for students to change their course once they have started classes.

Since there is no door-to-door mail service in Uganda and less than 10% of Ugandans even have a post office box, the admissions to all Universities are published in the daily newspaper.  On publication day, students and parents can been seen on street corners or in taxis combing the pages of the newspaper to reveal the course offered by their chosen University.  Afterwards, students report to the University Registrar office to receive their admission forms, bank slips and class schedule.  Students found out about admissions beginning of August giving them only 3 weeks to prepare for classes…oh, Uganda!

Most Bachelor level degrees are 3 years following the same academic calendar as American universities.  The major difference is that students focus solely on their coursework.  There is no well-rounded, Liberal Arts University education here.  Students attend specific classes for their degree area only.

For as long as I have known Samarie (since 2007), she has always shared that she wanted to be a journalist.  While some of her peers have changed their ideal professions, Samarie has not.  And now she has the opportunity to fulfill that dream at Ndejje University in Mengo (area of Kampala) pursuing her Bachelors in Journalism and Mass Communication.

I have always admired Habib’s ambition.  For as long as I have known him (since 2008), he has exhibited a passion for politics. He closely follows all of the business of Uganda’s Parliament.   He can identify and give biography information on all political figures in East Africa.  And he knows with absolute certainty that one day he will be an elected member of Ugandan Parliament.  Habib has been accepted at Makerere University to study his Bachelor of Arts in Social Science.  He will use this opportunity as a springboard for his political aspirations in the future.

Change the Truth offers these students sponsorship for their school tuition and needed class materials, notes, supplies.  In addition, they were gifted with a gently-used laptop computer to assist with their endless research, class assignments, and term papers.  For more information about sponsoring a student through Change The Truth, visit the website here.

Congratulations to both Samarie and Habib.  Stay tuned to see what is in store for these young people in their future, because their possibilities are limitless.

precious possessions: guest post by melissa

"This past week I helped prepare the new Senior 1 students for school. Each school typically has a list of requirements for students - items for the school (like photocopy paper, brooms, toilet paper), school supplies (notebooks, pens, art supplies, etc.), personal items (hygiene items and clothing), and dormitory supplies (basin, bed sheets, mattress, mosquito net, soap, etc). I have developed a system for purchasing most of the supplies from various shops in Kajjansi. I like to shop locally and support the small business owner. Every student goes to school with the same supplies, so it simplifies shopping considerably. While I make these purchases carefully within a tight budget, I give little thought to the items otherwise.

However, I have been humbly reminded of the significance these supplies are to the Change The Truth students. CTT provides as many of the essentials as possible within the parameters of the annual sponsorship, as CTT wants students to be equivalent with their peers in the boarding section at school. SMK and guardians have provided as much as possible for the orphans, but it is a reality that personal possessions are few and precious. Children learn to share, borrow, and barter with one another at an early age. So it only stands to reason that receiving individual items would carry additional meaning and significance.

There have been a couple of distinct moments that I have given pause to what ‘new and personal’ supplies really mean to the CTT students. The students have been received second-hand clothing or shoes for their entire lives, which they often have to wear for more than one year. So the idea that they are getting a new pair of school shoes annually is sometimes mind-blowing. Then when they find out that they are going into Kampala to shop for those shoes themselves, they are doubly thrilled. Something so small and simple from my experience is so special and thrilling to the CTT students.

In addition, students take notice that they are going to school with their own bathing soap, washing soap, shoe polish, vasoline, etc. These are items that they are typically used to sharing or borrowing from others. When students are presented with these simple items, their reaction would make one would think they were plated in gold! Students then take meticulous efforts to label their items, pack them neatly in their small metal case and then inventory their case. Some students can be found opening and reopening their cases several times a day, just to make sure their items are still there.

When heading to school, a student’s essentials are all contained in this small case. I have often challenged myself to think about what would go into my case. What would be the most valuable or useful possessions for me? For most students, it is their notebooks from previous years, a few photos/letters, and their personal care items.

I certainly hope that I remember this experience in the future, and I continue to appreciate the smaller essentials (like soap, toothpaste, pens) a bit more than I have in the past. After all, life without them would be a completely different experience, so CTT should be proud of providing a well-rounded, fully supported experience for its students. I am a witness to how even the smallest items have enriched their lives!"

new students begin secondary school: guest post by melissa

"This past week I have devoted my energies in preparing CTT’s new 7 sponsored students for Secondary school - both physically and mentally. In addition to visiting schools, we shopped for new school supplies, shoes, book bags, hygiene supplies, towels, bedding, dishes, etc. We ensured that everything was properly labelled and packed nicely in their cases. We went over school rules, completed physicals, and a few other school requirements.

Senior 1 is the beginning of another world for these students, as the next step in their educational journey. They are arriving at Secondary as new fish in a really large pond. One of the schools even affectionately referred to new Senior 1 students as the ‘babies.’ Everything is new for them, and they must quickly acclimate to the rigorous challenges of going from 4 subjects to 16 subjects (yeah, no kidding!). They no longer have the security blanket of familiar teachers, rules, environment that SMK has provided them for their entire Primary school years.

In most ways, each student was excited. They are venturing away from SMK to make a new group of friends, explore their talents, and advance their education with serious devotion. They have been hearing about Secondary school from older students for years, and now it is their turn to experience this great privilege (and each of these sponsored students recognize that advancing to Secondary school is an elite privilege for them). However, there were also some elements of anxiety to address (and squelch). Would they be teased? Would they have the proper things? Who would help them with problems? How would they know where to go and at what time? Did I promise to come and visit them?

I have to admit, it was challenging to leave this group of students at school. They looked physically small and vulnerable in so many ways, yet their bright eyes were gleaming with excitement. They walked around the campus with wide eyes soaking up the atmosphere as their heads shifted from side to side. They looked at the older students with glances of reverence and respect.

This year Change The Truth chose two excellent schools to place students in: St. Charles Lwanga International Secondary School and Taibah International College School. CTT, St. Mary Kevin Orphanage Motherhood and the supporters of these students have high hopes for Claire Faith, Evelyn, Francis, Isabella, Rebecca, Scovia, and Steven. Each student has great gifts and much potential for excellence. We look forward to witnessing their growth in Secondary school."

- Melissa

party for melissa

Our fabulous "on-the-ground" social worker/liaison Melissa has been visiting home in the US for the past couple weeks (along with her son Antwain). Last night CTT team members got a chance to see her and catch up. We all agreed that Uganda has been good to her (one comment was that she looked 10 years younger!) She confessed that while it's been absolutely great to see family and friends she's ready to go back home to the kiddos (and put on her flip-flops!).


Jane (Team 1), Melissa, Leroy (Team 5)


Lonnie (Team 1)


Max (Team 2) and his friend Jill


Michelle (Team 5), Dawn (Team 5), Avis (Teams 4,5)


Eddie (Team 3) and me


David (Team 4)


Jennifer (Team 4), Lynne (Teams 1,2,5) Jeff (Team 4)

help for the "big boys"

The following project proposal was presented to CTT from Melissa, our on-the-ground liaison. It is one of many that Melissa has sent my way. I thought this one in particular was worth sharing. You can clearly understand the amount of in-depth research and analysis Melissa does on our behalf. Down to the penny, we know exactly what is being covered with our funds. And we have a good description of the need itself.

As you will see below, the dollar can go a long way toward helping ease certain problems for the children to whom we have committed our assistance.

CTT Special Project: Dormitory Painting and Repairs for Older Boys

Objective: Ensure a clean, healthy and safe living environment for older male orphans.

Practical Issues: The dormitory for Secondary School aged boys is one of the older dormitories at SMK. The dormitory consists of two small, separate rooms. There are 20-25 boys who call these rooms home on a full or part-time basis (depending on whether or not they board at their respective schools).

Despite the best efforts of SMK Administration and the older boys themselves, the dormitories are in desperate need of repairs and repainting. Insects (like bedbugs) have infested parts of the dormitory, and there is also a problem with rodents.

Patching of small holes in walls and foundation, complete painting of walls from ceiling to floor, spraying of bedding and linens for insects, minor repairs to roof leakage and rebuilding of shutters on existing windows would help immensely.

Wall Paint
3 jerry cans @ 53,000 shillings
159,000 shillings ($63.60)

Paint Thinner
2 jerry cans @ 20,000 shillings
40,000 shillings ($16)

Painting supplies (brushes, basins)
50,000 shillings ($20)

Insect Chemicals
1 Litre
60,000 shillings ($24)

Cement
2 bags @ 29,000 shillings
58,000 shillings ($23.20)

Iron Sheet
1 sheet @ 30,000 shillings ($15)

Lumber
10 timbers @ 10,000 shillings
100,000 shillings ($40)

Total cost of project 497,000 shillings ($198.80)
**Prices based on 2,500 shillings per dollar conversion.

CTT has agreed to take on this project. Team 5 will hopefully be able to help with the work while we are there. When I informed Melissa of this, here is what she wrote:

"Great news. And if you close your eyes and listen hard enough the echo of cheers from the Big Boys will most definitely be heard across the ocean!!"

melissa

Melissa Mosher has been living and working at St. Mary Kevin orphanage for 15 months now. The work she's doing with the children and for Change the Truth is nothing short of miraculous. I thank her (daily in my thoughts and once a month on the phone) over and over again. Truly, she has made the work we are doing more meaningful, relevant and effective.

Pictured above is Melissa, Issy, Melissa's mom, Pam, (who recently visited Uganda for seven weeks) and Rosette. A day at the beach. Can't wait to have my own day the beach with the kids soon!

The following is a piece Melissa recently posted on her blog. It's about how thankful she is for the opportunity to work with these special children. Melissa, please know how thankful WE ARE for you!

"I am ever thankful for St. Mary Kevin Orphanage Motherhood. (Hold on cause there are a lot of thanksgivings to follow!) First of all, I am thankful to the orphans that call SMK their home. Despite personal tragedies that have brought them to SMK, they are sincerely the most loving, friendly, inspiring, talented, spirited children I have the pleasure of knowing and loving with all of my heart. From the youngest orphans in pre-Primary to the older orphans in Secondary school, I have such fondness for each age level in different ways. (But yeah, nothing could compare to my love of the Big Boys!) I am thankful for the vision and tireless dedication of SMK’s Administration. There are very few people that I admire and respect more than Rosemary and Joseph Kavulu (and their daughter, Joan Faith) for their years of unconditional love and support for these children. Without their direct interventions in the lives of the orphans at SMK, it is frightening to think of where some of them would be today. I am thankful to a staff of teachers, matrons, cooks, and coaches who work together as a tight-knit community to raise these orphans. Finally, I am thankful for the unique atmosphere of SMK that is truly blessed. From my first visit at SMK, I could feel something special in the air in and around SMK. The more time I have spent here, I honestly believe it is LOVE. SMK is truly one of the most special, contagious, gracious, friendly, loving places in the entire world!!"

guest post by melissa mosher

"Happy One Year to Us!

This past week I have been shaking my head in constant amazement that one year has passed since our arrival to Uganda. One whole year… 12 full months... 2 rainy seasons… 3 school terms. This move to Uganda was the largest leap of faith that I have ever taken, but the rewards have been beyond measure.

Recently there have been reminders about how settled Antwain and I have become in our lives in Uganda. Visitors have literally thought Antwain was Ugandan as his accent and mannerisms have assimilated so much to Ugandan ways. And I have received many compliments from adults and children about being a ‘real African woman. ‘ When we moved here, I wanted to live as simplistically as possible. I chose to wash my own clothes, mop my own floors, prepare my own meals integrating as many Ugandan local dishes as possible, and navigate public transportation. This was my conscious choice, and there have been times when it has been challenging, frustrating, and tiresome.

But one year later, there are a lot of fruits from that labor. On most days, I efficiently run my own household. I can wash some pretty ridiculous things, even heavy towels and blankets. I can prepare almost all of the Ugandan dishes (although there is still a lot more for me to learn). There are becoming fewer and fewer places/areas within Kampala that I have not visited. I have had the opportunity to travel to see the beautiful splendor of other parts of Uganda. I have learned the dance of bartering with market vendors or boda drivers and get amused when Ugandans recognize that I am a knowledgeable muzungu (white person). But admittedly, my Luganda is still very poor (although Antwain is almost fluent in his understanding).

For Antwain it has been a year for him to blossom. I continue to be amazed by Antwain every single day. He has grown taller and matured physically. But it has been the changes in his character, confidence in his academic performances, and the displays of profound friendship that have really transformed Antwain. He has been happier, healthier, and freer than I have ever seen him before. He has also displayed incredible patience and generosity with our enlarged household. Although Antwain still misses the conveniences of America, I can see that he now harbors a greater appreciation for them. It is still uncertain how this experience living in Uganda will shape the young man he is becoming, but I will never regret bringing him here to Uganda during such formable years.

And SMK…a place that I fell in love with back in 2007 still holds a cherished place in my heart. I still have moments (even after a whole year), where I will literally stop, look around, and revel in being at SMK. It still feels incredible to be living this dream! I continue to hold the utmost respect for the daily mission and dedication of Rosemary Kavulu and the entire staff at SMK. I am awed by the incredible support that Rosemary has had throughout the years from her husband, Joseph, and her children. In addition, it has been inspiring to witness the collaborative efforts of so many ‘friends’ of the orphans, like Change The Truth, Touch The World, Kyklou, and a few others who collaboratively are making some significant improvements to otherwise forgotten orphans. I wholeheartedly believe that it does take a village to raise a child here in Africa, and for me, it will be one of the greatest honors of my life to know that I was gifted with the opportunity to be a part of that village.

I am also reminded daily that I would not have the strength or endurance to be living my dreams in Uganda without the unconditional love and support of my family and friends. It is because I am so loved that I can love others. It is because I have champions in my corner that I can be champion for others. I will forever be appreciative for the selflessness of my loved ones who have endured long gaps in communication, a 9 hour time difference, a prolonged visit home, missed holidays and family celebrations, and additional obligations on my behalf.

There is still another year ahead of us. The journey is not over. There is still so much more that I want to experience and learn from Uganda. And remember there is always an open invitation to come and visit!"

- Melissa

antwain

Is it possible that this is the same boy?

The answer is probably: yes and no.

Some of you may remember the slightly stubborn 11 year-old who proclaimed in front of a big crowd at the 3rd Annual CTT event that he was NOT excited about moving to Uganda. Personally, I don't remember seeing Antwain smile all that much during the moving process. It had to have been pretty overwhelming and scary.

He had to get all of his personal items into one piece of luggage. That's a lot of downsizing, especially for an American kid who has lots of things. He had to say goodbye to his friends and his family, his house, his school, Chipotle, beef jerkey, his bike, his Wii.

Antwain has been living in Uganda now for 10 months with his mom, CTT's amazing orphanage social worker and liaison. He just celebrated his 12th birthday. He has transformed from a kid to a young man in Ugandan, and I, for one, hope he writes a book about his experience one day.

Melissa wrote this about Antwain on her blog recently:

"One of Antwain’s greatest loves is playing the drums. His skills have really improved considerably since arriving in Uganda. He is confident and talented and content as he drums away to a rhythm that was I swear was born inside of him…the tall drum being his favorite to play.

As I was walking through the school the other day, I came upon an impromptu dance and drumming session with some of the children. My boy was leading the drumming troops as many girls practiced their dance movements. I could not see a trace of little boy in him at that moment, which made me a little sad but also extremely proud."

Antwain, I hope at the very least you're keeping a journal so that the book I'm hoping for is in the works!

social unrest in uganda

This past week I asked Melissa to describe the current situation in Uganda (regarding the recent election and political/social unrest). She replied with this comprehensive update:

"Directly following Museveni's reelection for President in February, he firmly stated that he would not allow any protesting of any sort to occur in Uganda, as he did not want Uganda to become like other African countries in the recent media. He forewarned political opponents and civilians alike that the harshest, firmest punishments would ensue for any such protesters. Within the last few weeks, many of the Presidental candidates have been publically denouncing Museveni for the increased prices of fuel (among other things). The two loudest, and most publically known opponents are Kizza Besigye (who was 2nd in the election) and Norbert Mao (who was a very distant 3rd). Each gentleman has staged a couple of 'Walk-To-Work' Protests where people are urged to chose to walk to work instead of taking a taxi or boda boda to show dissatification for the increased fuel prices (which has been directly correlated to other increased prices for food and other necessities). The men have publically urged others to take a stand against the rising fuel prices. All of the demonstrations have ended in the police using excessive force, tear gas, and rubber bullets in attempts to get the protesting to stop.

Following each protest (and there have been about 4 of them), the leader of the protest is arrested to inciting public violence and held accountable for the injuries that occurred during the protests. (Each man has been arrested at least twice.) Within a few days of arrest, either Besigye or Mao is released from jail by the courts. As of today, both men are back in jail-- Mao for his leadership of a demonstration earlier this week in Gulu, which resulted in a couple of deaths (as people ingested too much tear gas from police), and Besigye for his leadership of a demonstration mid-week that resulted in the death of a small child. Museveni has publically released statements that while he does not condone any excessive violence by police, these men should heed his warning about further protests within Uganda.

Besigye's first protest was actually stopped here in Kajjansi. Besigye was injured by a rubber bullet which broke one of his fingers. The shots of the guns could be heard from the school, although at the time, we did not know what was happening. Moses, SMK Headmaster, has been very cautious this term about releasing students to guardians and keeping them at school until the end of the term following that event.

There is a noticable increase in police and miliary soldier presence again around Kampala. At least one officer within a large group will have tear gas canisters on his jacket, probably more as a visible deterant. But I have not felt unsafe within Kampala. I just follow the news daily to chose my day to go into town."

Click here to read an April 21st NYT article about the situtation.

school days

Want to know what high school is like in Uganda? The following report from Melissa, the CTT/SMK Liaison, spells it out.

Kajjansi Progressive Senior Secondary School is located in the heart of Kajjansi, Uganda (a small village a short distance south of Uganda’s capital city of Kampala). Kajjansi Progressive is a mixed boarding secondary school (with some day scholars) that provides a comprehensive education program from senior one to senior six. The School has been in operation for 19 years.

Change The Truth has a total of 14 students currently attending Kajjansi Progressive. Seven students are in the boarding section, and seven students are day scholars. Kajjansi Progressive has demonstrated exceptional understanding and support of the emotional and educational needs of the orphans from St. Mary Kevin. (Most of our other sponsored secondary students attend Bethel Covenant College.)

Students who are in Senior 1 and Senior 2 take 16 courses during each term. They are as follows: English, Mathematics, History, Geography, Physics, Chemistry, Biology, Commerce, Computer, Christian (or Islamic) Religious Education, Political Education, Luganda, French, Agriculture, Literature, Fine Arts. Students in Senior 3 and Senior 4 take 10 subjects. Senior 5 and Senior 6 students take 4 subjects.

Boarding Students’ Daily School Schedule (Monday-Friday):

5:00a-6:00a Morning Class Prep Work
6:00a-7:00a Morning Prayer (Lead by students grouped within their religious denomination) and Breakfast
7:00a-4:40p Classes (one hour lunch break during the day)
4:40p-5:30p Extracurricular Activities or Organized Indoor games –or—Extra Lessons for Senior 4/ Senior 6 candidates (organized in small groups)
5:30p-6:00p Evening Dinner
7:30p-9:30p Evening Class Prep Work
10:00p Lights out within Dormitories
Note: All Progressive Students have School ½ day on Saturday, and all Boarding students attend church service for their religious denomination on Sunday.

As you can see, Secondary School in Uganda is serious business. Change the Truth does all it can to help make it a successful experience for the orphans/half orphans who qualify. CTT provides everything from the school uniform and books to toilet paper and a broom. We are so lucky to have Melissa watching over the kids now. She has told me that when she pulls up at the school in a taxi or on a boda-boda, the sponsored students go crazy with excitement that she has come to see them. Because of the strict and disciplined nature of the Ugandan schools, though, visits are few and far between.

Melissa is the “parent” who proudly shows up at Kajjansi Progressive and Bethel for the official Visitation Day. She usually brings along several of the students’ younger siblings. She attends the parent meeting and gets a chance to speak with many of the teachers about the individual progress of our sponsored kids.

Melissa also delivers "sponsor gifts" to the students. These include: one kilo of sugar, a small bottle of tomato sauce, a small jug of juice, one bar of wash soap, one fork and one covered bowl with lid.

She also hands out sponsor or pen pal letters and doles out encouraging words. And last, but far from least, she gives (and gets) a lot of hugs.